We often believe that with the “right” partner, everything will just flow.
We’ll totally get each other, we’ll feel deeply connected and always be attracted to each other.
And yet most of us meet really challenging roadblocks in our relationship journey.
We might feel like our partner doesn’t see and understand us. Or we don’t see and understand them.
We might have the same arguments over and over again without any solutions.
We might realize that our hopes and expectations aren’t met, and we don’t know what to do about it.
Let me assure you: All of this is normal. It’s coming up for a reason – and that’s the entry point for doing work together.
As an Embodied Love & Relationship Coach, I bring a deep understanding of human interactions, nervous system regulation, communication dynamics and emotional intelligence.
My approach is experiential, engaging, and grounded in real-world applications. These workshops are not just about theory—they offer practical tools that teams can immediately implement to create a more harmonious and high-performing workplace.
If your team is looking for more than just another training—if you want real transformation, deeper trust, and tools that last beyond the workshop room—let’s create something powerful together.
we build a deep and lasting connection.
We get really clear about what you both want in this coaching process, as well as in the bigger picture of your relationship.
We crystallize your goal into a relationship vision that will serve as your North Star.
We work with tailored practices to create foundational safety and connection even in challenging moments or fights. This is key to allow our nervous systems to co-regulate, and see our partner as our ally.
You will learn a variety of conscious communication tools as well as embodied connection practices that set you up for great honest talks on any topic, easeful repair after conflicts, and a way to always find back to love.
Depending on your goal and the blocks that we have found, we go into a healing process together.
This can include working with each other’s inner children, core wounds and relationship projections. Or we explore ways to deepen your intimacy through heart open conversation and conscious practices that allow you both to get your desires met.
This part is highly tailored to your situation – there is no one size fits all approach. We’ll select the ways that truly work for you.
I used to be so lost in navigating relationships. Being anxiously attached and clingy, while trying to hide it and pretending that I don’t need anyone. I seemed to never get what I was so desperately looking for. And played out a lot of my shadows with really kind men – giving to get, holding back what I was truly feeling, crossing my own boundaries.
It’s been revolutionary for me to become conscious of these patterns, and to have healthier and more mature ways to show up.
I learned how to fill my own cup, and how to ask for what I need from my partner as well.
I learned that their behavior has so much more to do with them than with me, and how to truly hold them in love and compassion.
I learned that relationship deep dives get to be fun and so incredibly liberating.
I truly believe that it’s a dual path of doing our own inner work, becoming more empowered, clear and authentic – as well as doing the work in relationships, healing and growing as we only can with someone else.
I’d be honored to take you on this journey, because there is nothing more beautiful and fulfilling than a thriving, loving relationship.
And I want this for everyone in the world!
When we face challenges in our relationships, we often need two things:
1) A safe space and time to express and be heard
2) Tools and approaches to move forward
I’m here to provide both for you.
As a coach, I’m creating a space for both of you to be understood. When two people are struggling, we often need a third person to give additional capacity without any judgement. This unlocks blockages, allows for more spaciousness in your relationship, and lets the love flow more easefully.
And my goal is to empower you both to become conscious creators of your relationship, using the tools for connection, communication, healing and intimacy that I’ll share with you.
In my work, I’m bringing in my experiences with:
As a certified Love & Relationship Coach with the VITA™ Method (The Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach by Layla Martin), I’m trained to take you on deep journeys using embodiment practices, parts work, shadow integration and constellations as well as communication and connection tools. It’s a trauma-informed, compassionate, gentle and yet powerful way to create meaningful shifts in your lives.
Nonviolent Communication (NVC) by Marshall Rosenberg is a communication method that aims at creating understanding and reduce conflicts. It helps us to identify feelings and needs, make clear and actionable requests, and hold each other with empathy.
Authentic Relating is an approach to foster connection, understanding and truthful expression between people. With different tools around noticing, expressing and listening, AR focuses on the present moment and helps to slow down any situation.
The key points that I’ve taken from my experience in Neo Tantra revolve around loving presence, working with energy, honoring the sacredness of the body and emotions, understanding the Feminine and Masculine principle in all of us, as well as seeing every experiences as an opportunity for depth and opening to the flow of life.
Rike guided us through multiple group discussions that focused on seemingly complex themes like connectivity and mindfulness, with such sensitivity and kindness, that she immediately put everyone at ease.
She manged to keep the session interesting with movements and by occasionally encouraged us to work in smaller groups. The formation of smaller groups really changed the dynamics and created an intimate safe space where even the shyest of individuals amongst us felt comfortable enough to open up and share freely.
As a result, the entire group felt a greater sense of togetherness and tranquillity after her session. We wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone seeking to organise a transformative and rejuvenating activity for their team members.
The first time I met Rike, I knew she would be a lovely addition to the Paus; community of moderators and workshop facilitators. Her energy is very welcoming and wise without a tinge of “I know everything there is to know,” and she approaches workshop topics brainstorming and programming with curiosity and catering to the audience she is working with, gladly asking the questions that help build an outline that is both of depths and accessible – which is very important in the wellness community.
Having done several company workshops around communication and connection, her vast experience reflects in her body of work. What I love to highlight about Rike is how she, with her practical communication style, helps break down difficult topics and helps people come together and feel at ease – because this is her nature, joyful and easeful.
Love working with her, even on a personal note, she extends her knowledge when she can to be able to help out. We’ll be happy to book again and learn more from her.